G, if you want to continue to stand then that is your choice...have you done anything different?
It CAN feel hopeless, but I encourage you to re-read some of your stuff. You will know when it is time to move on if that is, in fact, what needs to be done.
hang in there!
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
