It was not pursuing, it was stating what you want. And he stepped up and told you that, that is what he wants. He sounds comfortable talking to you. I like that. Keep "walking", Love K
I don't think it was pursuing, he wanted to know what you think, you've told him.And he CALLED back, great!
Happy for you, dearest friend, ((((((((HUG))))))!
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Just caught up on your thread. I remember when you 1st arrived here.....lots of progress!!
While I tend to approach most communication with my H sideways, it looks like the direct approach worked for you. You're able to feel things out better than we can here w/only partial history & context.
Now that you got that response, it may be time to leave it to gel for a while.
OMG! I may have just been offered a job. An old colleague of mine just emailed me so I called him and we chatted. I'm going to be meeting him on July 29th.. he said that he'll have a few of his peers there as well to meet me so I can get a feel for the place... Hmmm, I think my employment vibe is being perked up!!!!!!
Off to find some fitflops like my beautiful friend Gypsy!
And, ((((Sunny))), thank you for stopping in. Definitely no more R talk unless H brings it up at this point.. just continue with the status quo of being the good friends that we are.
"Hey Hun, I just wanted to give you a call and let you know I got your message. The reality is that I want to be, you know, I want you to be that person... and I love you. I will get back to where I need to be. It's not so much mental anguish to get that going I just want to make sure I'm mentally right. I just don't want it to happen again.. So I love you and I will talk to you later."
WHERE!!! OH MY GOD!!! PRAISE JESUS!!!!!!!!! THIS IS AMAZING NEWS!!!!
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO proud of you and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited for you!!
Congratulations on your job offer!!! Things are really rolling!
LOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVELOVE (((((WHERE)))) T
PS I *highly* recommend that you get "passionate marriage" by david snartch!! it is totally blowing my mind and he has a totally new framework for dealing with communication that might be helpful to you and your H!!!
I will keep my all my fingers and toes crossed for you on 29th!
Have a fab weekend, (((((((hugs)))))).
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
