One other suggestion... that was kind of an eye opening experience for me was the book "For Women Only". Have you read that? It sent me spinning. I felt like the worst wife on the planet.. but at the same time it was helpful.
As for my sitch. Still the same likely since the last time you checked. My H and I are good friends.. mind you he does tell me he loves me during most phone calls now so that's a step in the right direction. But he claimed to love me throughout all of this.. just wasn't sure if it was enough.
I'm also wondering, gosh sorry I guess I'm a rambler today... how were you feeling leading up to this bomb? Like in my sitch I was VERY down about work for an extended period of time.. so I wasn't making the home very welcoming. How were you feeling?? Also are you extroverted or introverted? I'm introverted and my H is most definitely extroverted.
Just things I'm wondering.. you have probably said these things in prior posts and if so I apologize.
