Sunny,
your kid should not be used in any way by neither of you. I'd suggest you make him call and leave a message while your H is still on the air.If he calls, let S answer and lock yourself in the bathroom, say "mommy can't come to the phone now" or something similar.
Love
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009