How can you open the lines of communication with your H?
Sadly, my H doesn't get it either. He thinks I'm just "jealous". I am the opposite of a jealous woman. The EA OW doesn't get it either. I had a talk with her back in February about what was bothering me. Yet she continues to pursue a friendship/relationship with my husband. She told me she always considered me her BF. With friends like her...
I don't know what else to do to open lines of communication.
I do Acts of Service (make dinner, do housework, buy special stuff he likes - Oreos, Gatorade, Ice Cream, etc. I don't eat or drink these things so he knows it's specifically for him.) I tried small talk.
My C suggested I ask if there is anything I've been doing to annoy him... maybe that open him up!
Gosh, at this point, I don't even care. I'm almost ready to give in and give up. We don't have children, so it's much less complicated (except for the work thing).
I'll check in on you in a little while, W2G. I need to see how you and your beautiful angel are doing.
((((((W2G)))))
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence