I having been asking her to stop shutting me out of her life. Stop using the kids to communicate information about what she is intending to do. She would have the kids call me and totally avoid talking to me at all. I asked her. I said you wanted to be my friend through this but you never extend friendship. She is completely detached and doesn't even communicate. I have expressed this since the day she left.
Then one time she did come in to talk to me and I ignored her because I didn't know what dark truly was. I was walking away shutting the door not looking like a lost puppy seeking her affection and attention. She got pissed about that. She said you want me to talk to you and I'm talking to you but you will not even look at me.
Then I do keep telling her to stop shutting me out of her life. She does it anyway.
Then she gets back on these little tidbits. Would text me in the evening. Ask me little quesions during the day. Now I answer them all, but I'm not jumping on it right away. Then I leave her alone again. Like she wants to see how bad I am there waiting for her.
However the shoe is not worn on the other foot. If I attempt to communicate with her. She doesn't get back in a timely manner if she even gets back at all. When she wants to communicate with me then she goes ape nuts and starts the phone marathon.
Maybe she just didn't have anything she wanted to ask me because she is completely dead to me. I pushed her away to far.
