Hi W2G, I agree with everything you said. I think the "I'm lonely" is a cry for help. This actually also came up long before the R with OW ended. My H is one person who does not need to take on any other activities/hobbies. He pursues more activities than anyone I have ever known or have even heard of. It's all part of trying to seek happiness but never does. He continues to run from his demons.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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