H had 3 year affair and I never knew!

[happycamper]

saffie - I am 95% certain that in my health authority they do tell you, as I remember reading the results and joking that I still didn't have HIV (as I had already had 3 tests). I phoned my local GUM clinic and they suggested I come in, just to be on the safe side. So I will do that - when I can get someone to look after the children! School holidays are upon us!