I hope everything goes okay with the police report. And I hope you look gorgeous and are acting "as if" at the office party!
Now, about the sex thing. I'm curious if there is passionate kissing during your session? My H and I have done the deed a few times since separating... I was the initiator as I felt it was a 180 from our SSM... anyway, the first few months there was very little kissing if at all... very little intimacy I guess you could say. I described it in my posts as carnal. The last couple times (if I can remember back that far ) were much more loving and had lots of kissing... it felt different and I felt better about it.
You need to stop doing it if you are not feeling very good about it...
Do you know if he is getting this from the other source?