Originally Posted By: girlfromipanema

He really does need that helmet, Corey.


Originally Posted By: karen43
I am so sorry your H seems so thick in the fog or whatever it is that happens to them!!!! Karen


Maybe his helmet is too tight? Who knows, but he is just determined to make an already horrible situation much worse!!!
I think they will crash and burn too, but the question is how bad will it get before it comes to that? I shudder to think about it.

I'm actually doing pretty well, all things considered. I have reconciled myself to this and I'm just going to go on with my life. We went to the batting cages last night and H was just being an a$$ to EVERYONE. He was mad at his mom because she took the kids to the movies and then out for dinner and ice cream after and didn't consult with him...she consulted with me. He wanted to take DS to the cage after the movie and was irritated with MIL because she had other plans. He yelled at MIL and then accused her of being the one that was irritable. MIL met H at the cage and I met them there too so I could get the kids and H was just an a$$ to me too! We were out in the open and there were a bunch of people around and he said..."You see that?" Ummmm, could you be a little more specific? Was it our S? Was it a UFO? Could you narrow "that" down a little more? When I didn't immediately answer yes, He tells me, with gritted teeth, that I am so damn irritating and that he is just so sick of this...OK. So all I replied was, maybe its you. Maybe you are the one that is irritable and are taking it out on everyone else...jerk. A few minutes later he comes over and tells me, "I would have thought that as his mother you would recognize that its a team our SON has played." So my reply was, "I did, I just don't care."

So the rest of the time there, I just treated him like he treated me, not taking any of his nonsense. He doesn't like it. OH WELL!!!


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option