Happy Anniversary to you as well fooled, and congratulations on taking that all important step towards a new life.
Imps post should be a manadory read but I think will be overlooked by the very people who need to read it.
Yes a new life is scary but think of the rewards.
Standing can be another word for stagnating I am afraid and for some it's easier to be the victim than taking any steps to move on so once again Congratulations.