Thankx Jen, Amy, L, & WTGFH,


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If you don't call he might spend his vacation trying to contact you and not being in a good mood with "the wretched one".


Exactly!


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Don't call; don't feed the beast; don't let him draw you back in right now... you are enforcing very basic boundaries now...nothing crazy at all.


Yes, he was just w/him yesterday. Funny how he can go from Sat. afternoon until Monday night w/out seeing or talking to him, what's the difference now!


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I'm pretty sure your H knows which buttons to push to get you to communicate with him. Now he's trying to prey on your nurturing nature
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He knows me well, this is throwing him for a loop, Lil' Miss Loyal/don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable, is not reacting or rushing to reassure him.

He left a VM yesterday evening saying he would have cell service in Mexico & would call from there to confirm where he would be staying, because he didn't know for sure yet (Uh huh ).
When he does call, please answer the call so I can talk to S5.

He's in the air for the next couple of hours, so I could have S5 leave a VM, but I really don't want him to have anything to go on, so think it's better to skip it.

L&L,

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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