I gave my XH a D because I know that's what he needed to be happy. I still think that for us the D was a way of Ding our old R and in a way I don't feel D at all from him. Since the D we've been spending more time together and have even very recently ML twice.
I'm over in Separated still if you want to read my posts.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
