Kelly Jo: My step one came from a very unlikely place...

I went to see a curandera, who is a spirital healer. I knew that I needed help dealing, and although I go to a Christian church, my beliefs are very different, because I don't think you can put spirituality into a box. So I wanted to know what I could do. She had me do a cleansing, and then a lot of praying with candles and stuff like that, and I have to tell you, it gave me peace almost from the very first day. It gave me something else to focus on, and that help in a way that I cannot even begin to tell you.

Once I found the first step to focusing somewhere else, the rest came a lot easier. It is just a matter of finding your nitch...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..