Thanks; maybe I need to start re-reading from my MLC and marriage-saving library. lol Within the first 18 months of my H moving out I bought a multitude of books:
The Divorce Remedy James Dobson's book on MLC Surviving an Affair The Power of a Praying Wife How One of You Can Save the 2 of You (or something like that) Dr. Phil's Relationship Rescue Smalley's How to Win Back Your Husband Before It's Too Late Surviving Your Husband's MLC The Grass Isn't Any Greener (or something like that) by Nancy Anderson (I think)
and several others. (I'm at work now and I can't remember all the books I have bought.)
I guess when I get home tonight I'll start re-reading.
I was just start starting to feel like, after all this time, it's HOPELESS!