Thanks; maybe I need to start re-reading from my MLC and marriage-saving library. lol Within the first 18 months of my H moving out I bought a multitude of books:

The Divorce Remedy
James Dobson's book on MLC
Surviving an Affair
The Power of a Praying Wife
How One of You Can Save the 2 of You (or something like that)
Dr. Phil's Relationship Rescue
Smalley's How to Win Back Your Husband Before It's Too Late
Surviving Your Husband's MLC
The Grass Isn't Any Greener (or something like that) by Nancy Anderson (I think)

and several others. (I'm at work now and I can't remember all the books I have bought.)

I guess when I get home tonight I'll start re-reading.

I was just start starting to feel like, after all this time, it's HOPELESS!

Thanks agin.

G