I just finished reading through your threads. I would encourage you to do the same and look at what has worked and what hasn't. When you first started you were still going on dates (with mixed results) but having fun none the less. Now things seem to be a bit more turmultous, though I think it is great that you recognize that.
What I didn't see in any of the threads is what has got you here, it is eluded to a little bit. But what can you work on for yourself that will make a difference. What is your H unhappy about. He mentioned that you were gone for a month prior to the sep for business and he didn't miss you....why?
What changes can you make in yourself? This is where you are going to make the biggest differnce. What does he not like about the R?
Your H said he was worried about you while he was gone and thta he is very troubled. Show him love and compassion. Stop the snooping or at the very least don't use it....it will only hurt you and you are in no position to use it as leverage. Be his unconditional friend.....show love
You are doing a great job at GAL, but what about your changes? GAL and 180s are great, but if we don't know what he is upset about then it is hard to say what will help.
I think your H still has feeling fro you and there is something to rebuild on.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
