WAW help

[alexjadams]

Arthur,

You are all over the place,
1. Accept that she is going to do what she wants & there is nothing you can do

2. Realize that your relationship is toxic right now an get away from it (mentally & emotionally)

3. And this OM isn't about you she is doing this to be selfish & taking what she "THINKS" she wants the whole other man will end (trust me) but the thing at that point is will she choose you or look for OM #2

4. Take this time and find the you, that you lost, you did things that you thought you (or she wanted you to be) were supposed to be

5. Take care of the kids right now she is very unstable and is toxic for them right now, don't add to that situation, accept the facts as they are lick your wounds, than MAN UP & just be mommy & daddy the kids will need someone that is stable

6. No one is perfect and your wife is making a (VERY BIG) mistake that we all hope she will learn from, don't hold this over her head if she decides to come back to you
Good luck and BTW this whole process may take years so you need to decide are you in for the long haul or are you ready to move on? & Do some soul searching!