Max~ calm, cool, collected! It never failed when H would want to meet he would say something to me that would get me fired up and I would lose my temper and it was on....i don't recommend that route!!

Act as if, no emotion, you are talking to one of the guys....it's hard...believe me i know, but but she may be wanting to see your "reactions"...if that makes sense!

it's tough...you will do great!!
keep us posted!!

thanks for all the input about how my H might be feeling..will be back later to make comments!!

good luck my friend!
Will say a prayer for you \:\)
christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"