Another one locked, I'm building a collection now! Here is a quick summary of my sitch.
To recap briefly my h and I have been together since September 2001, married for 2 years and separated since Oct 07. We had a crisis last summer, he had just recovered from his first severe bought of chronic bowel disease (that started on our honeymoon) and started a new job and has 'changed as a person and has nothing left to give'. I discovered a potential ea in May and he has since said that he no longer wants to work on the marriage. Since then I have been DBing and there have been small improvements.
