A lot of old hurts are brought up, both sides try to justify their actions, it's not often pretty, and it could set you back. Just my 2 cents.
No good comes from this, particularly justifying your actions. I did plenty of this and it never brought me closer to my W. That is because to her it sounds like "see, I wasn't wrong I had every reason to do that". Whether you feel it is right or not doesn't matter, it is what your spouse thinks. One of my favorite sayings is "do you want to be right or do you want to be happy". I spent a lot of time in my M trying to be right....it didn't make me happy.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
