ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[TwinDad]

I'm tired of all this. I'm weary. I'm done. I honestly don't see our talk Sat going well, and I really don't have it in me to care. I'm not a bad person, really. I'm just so tired of it all.

Ladybug,

This is understandable...this is very draining and you have been at this for a while now. Don't take his post ML comment as anything....remember believe nothing of what you here...he was probably doing it just to see what your reaction was...kind of a test (I don't agree with this but people do it).

As far as the Sat morning talk goes, "act as if" if you go in negative...it will come out negative, if you go in there with a positive attitude and portray that you will likely get a good reaction. Whatever you do be calm through it. You H feeds off your emotions. This doesn't mean that you have to admit you are completely wrong just don't get dragged into a fight or a blame game. If your H tries to turn it into one, the just say something like "we both know what went wrong and how we got here, there is no point in trying to figure out who was the chicken or who was the egg, we need to work on how we are going to go forward and be a good couple and parents"

Just my thoughts. I know you have been at this a while....you have had some amazing stamina. Remember to check your pride at the door, but this doesn't mean that you need to be a doormat.