Most people when they get back together leave the board.
.... and the evidence for that is ??????
One of the serious problems with this board is that some people seem to think that if you say something often enough it must be true.
Unless there has been a very sophisticated monitoring and evaluation strategy implemented on this board without me noticing, there is absolutely no way we could know that when people reconcile with their spouse they leave the board!!!
It's bad enough when posters reassure each other authoritatively that "affairs last 2 years" and "she's just a bandaid for his/her mental illness" - it's scary when the moderators start doing it.
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
