I have a couple of questions and please don't take offence to them. Just need to understand a little better.
1) If you left and your H is being so reluctant to change why are you working so hard to save the M?
2) Do you still love him or are you trying to figue that out before you call it quits?
3) Why does he feel that you were/ are verbably abusive?
4) Does he do anything other than work? Play a sport, hang with friends, have any type of fun?
5) Do you guys have any fun together or is it always tense when your together?
6) Has he always been angry and controlling or has it happened slowly over the course of the M?
7) What do you do for fun on your own?
Did you get the book from Amazon yet? Just want to know what you think about it.
Again just trying to get a feel for where your at and he sounds like me over a year ago and it might help me understand my W position a little better. And if you have answered these questions before, sorry but I forget sometimes with all the sitches on DB that I read.
Have a great weekend, I'm off to NY to see "Wicked" with W and kids.
