Ready to GAL...Drop the Rope...Detach..2...

[ddstartingover]

Thanks NLT. I already know as much as I need to know now. I didn't need a PI, and won't get one unless this leads to D and my attorney wants one.

As for now, I plan to get the kids up and around sometime before noon and be gone for the day so H can move out. Now that I know what I need to know I know what I need to do. I know H needs to leave. I know he has a decision to make, and I know that if he chooses something other than me and his family, it will be his mistake----something he will regret for the rest of his life. I know that I will also have choices. Will I choose to let him back into my life if that's what he wants? I don't know. He'll have to learn how to tell the truth. I will have to learn to trust him. There will be A LOT of work to do. At this point, I still believe our family deserves it, but I don't know how long I will.

I had a good lunch with friends yesterday, and a good night out last night with another. I've made the decision to keep the information I have now to myself. I've decicded that the fact that there is OW is not something I need my friends to know. I also know should there be a chance down the road, it will be easier if they don't know.

I'm so glad I found this site. I am so glad I have my friends. I am not the person I was even a month ago. I know I can survive.