Mulesqb - Still alive and Kickin'

[Bworl]

Let the weekend go. Just like most everything else right now, there's nothing to be gained by fretting over it. Get back to focusing on the positives of a weekend with the guys.

I don't see any need for going dark. You gave your blessings to this trip, right? If she calls and wants to talk to you or the boys, talk to her. As I've told you before, don't borrow trouble. You're allowing your unrest with the situation in general create a monster out of this trip. And it's not as simple as it just affecting you - it will come through in your interactions with her also.

You've had some good days. Focus on the positives of those days. Think about what went well and try to see if you can identify why. It's easy for us to chalk up a good day to just our wayward spouse being normal for a change, but I'm inclined to think that we all play a role in those good days. How can you keep those coming?

You're doing fine Mules. Don't make more of this than it is. Forget the suggestions we've helped plant in your head and enjoy the weekend. Before you know it she'll be home and you'll find that everything was fine.


Blessings,

Bill