damn you guys are drill seargants ! i'm on amazon ordering them now but the page keeps freezing up. anyways, i appreciate everyone saying i'm making progress, albeit a tiny bit. A month ago, I sat and bawled day in and day out. I shed no tears now, go out with friends, exercise, and don't do drugs. I can laugh and smile, and I'm reconnecting with people I haven't talked to in years (no women). I also don't ask what she is up to or where she is going anymore. I would say all of this is progress. how about you ?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF