I'm pretty sure that pursuing her will do nothing for you right now. She sounds a little bit like my ex in that this divorce is something she has decided needs to be done.
You're in the role now of having to treat yourself as well as you can and take advantage of your interactions with her to show the man that you've become.
I like the idea of becoming her friend, but not at the expense of your dignity. Check out Sleepers thread for a guy who is divorced and is slowly but surely winning his way back into his wife's heart. It can be done.
Stay strong and let the divorce business slide off your shoulders. Can't let it knock you down, even though it's painful.
More later, got to catch up.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
