Well PD, I do see some, but I think more progress can be made and more impact be made if Buster tries to learn rather than having us clumsily type out the content of the books that he wont read. I don't have the time to do Relationship Rescue justice.
I wouldn't be humble to say my work pales in comparison.
I would reccomend Relationship rescue for you rather than divorce remedy, DR requires a lot more instinct than you are up for right now. Phil lays things out for you like a auto users manual.
Buster you are being calm with her, you are trying to keep back, but you are pushing too hard. And you are doing this stuff becuase we tell you, not becuaes you understand it.
Just like church, this stuff does you little good if you dont understand WHY you are doing it.
Read the pros if you can. Otherwise you will have to rely on what table scraps we have the time and talent to scrounge up from our brains for you.
You are trying, don't stop, and you are doing some great work...but you are pushing her too hard and focusing way too much on what she's doing. Be warm and nice, but don't push her so hard.
You have a lot of work to do, you dont have time to be wondering around all day what she's up to.
