It is a damn shame you won't read Relationship Rescue or something...you would get a lot more out of it and likley would resolve your marriage problems a lot sooner.
I agree. I don't see you applying much, if anything, from what you're "learning" here, Buster. You post and you post and you post, and you ask a million questions, but then you don't listen, and you damned sure don't apply what you're being told.
Mark is a real pro here -- LISTEN TO HIM. APPLY WHAT HE'S TEACHING YOU.
As the Bible says, "there is wisdom in many counselors."