do I just pretend she's a friend whom I have a child with, and if she only wants to see me when our son changes hands, thats it ? it is hard to bait her and at the same time back off. we've been separated for almost 5 weeks, but still talk (minus R talk) like we're interested in each other's going-ons.
1. You act like she is a potential romantic interest but the two of you are taking it SLOW. Dont' push yourslef on her, just be charming and interesting. Playing HARD to GET even.
2. Five weeks is NOT a lot of time for divorce busting. How long has she been having an affair? You should expect this to go on for at least three months I would think. You aren't half way there yet even. And that is a VERY BROAD estimate ok?
You need to control your impatience and focus on yourself. You need to give HER time to THINK and warm up to you again.
if she DOES move to you, DON"T fall at her feet. If she kisses you, kiss back but HOLD something back. NEVER give away the whole game. Man, I think women can give you some better advice here lol
Just kiss back, or do back, and don't push for more..let HER come to YOU. PATIENCE...she will start to walk on her OWN...you can't force a baby to walk, and you can't force a wayward wife to hurry a reconciliation. They will both start to walk safely on their own.
Hard to bait her and back off? Study any single woman. They have a natural talent for the bait and run game. Girls can you give me a hand here on teaching Buster how to play hard to get? lol Seroiusly, i am a guy, I can't explain this, but it is what he needs to do here I think.
You ARE baiting her when you put something out there for her and let HER decide.
Go fishing...do you YELL at the FISH to HURRY UP? Of course not...you need to study some activities that require patience. Go play golf or something...
