ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[pisces9]

"So he tells me, "I'm tired of waiting for you to decide what to do. You told me you wanted me to be the leader in our home, so this is me leading. This is what you want, now you have to follow." nice.
I told him, "Being the leader in the home does not mean that you make major decisions like moving out of town without DISCUSSING IT!""

i agree that major decisions should be made together BUT he is saying he wants you to come.

ask him why he wants you to come- does he want to M to work? ask what he thinks would make your M different....

it seems he really wants to be with you...i agree ML can confuse things for everyone- although i am getting quite... .....

this doesnt have to be over and he may not want a counselor- why do you think you have to have one? DR says over and over you not need one..i thought thats what we needed too and was sure that was th only way- but now he is opening up to me a lot and i dont pressure him about a counselor- cops are very private about this stuff.