Girl is right. Retrouvaille has no counselors, no one sitting in with you. But they teach you the rules of conduct before you talk to each other. And they show you how to do it. And they give you questions that elicit positive responses not arguments. They teach you how to communicate effectively and fairly for the rest of your lives. It is the answer. And it is only 2 days. The website has the places and the dates, http://www.helpourmarriage.org. If there isn't one near you for a few months, take a mini vacation and go to one in a different area. It is worth it.
And yes, I know, he doesn't want to learn to communicate fairly and effectively, he wants you to cave in to his way. But that isn't happening, is it? So maybe he needs to compromise, and learn to compromise. This man does still want you.
