this is good. men are fixers and as such if he is typical it is extremely difficult when things are not "fixed". Now you will be thinking whats Dave on about ??? our M is not getting fixed. What your H will want is for you to be "settled " before he went away , to have you where he needs you and thats where it is comfortable for him. Having you there friendly and accommodating and happy to see him adds a piece of calm to his world. Now you have moved from that compartment and are playing a different game he will be concerned. You can still be polite and not deliberatly confrontational but just acting differently , not being home early in the morning is good . You are taking a bit of control away.
My bet is you will get more attempts from H to reasure himself before he leaves , otherwise he is going to be bothered about it while he is away.
