For the Guy with kids and a WW 6

[hopeful4her]

THATS where I need to be. I don't want to make it easy on her. But I have to realize or at least believe that she is still moving out.

I have to talk to her. No, I need US to talk to each other. Once the defenses are up, no going around them.

I want to understand her. I really do. I just have to figure out a way to make her realize this.

I see it as not fighting for the marriage anymore. I am just fighting for us to keep a R. For us and our kids. I will never accept OM. She knows this. She can't be that stupid.

In her mind, she has no choice. A shot at happiness. She is not able to let that go.

They are so different, though. They really have no chance.