Go find the newest thread by "husband" - I can't believe what has happened with his sitch. They went to RETRO last weekend and his life is changing in wonderful ways.
Tell your H that is what you want.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence