Also Jeff - Dont pull the tails off of lizards as that is where most of its body fat is stored and if it is close to winter they will starve because they wont have time to grow a new one back.
Woog, I hope things are better with your kids. It takes time for them to digest the change and come to terms with it. They are lucky to have you to help them through this. Love K
On another issue... Let's forget lizzards and other useful info... Let's concetrate on what matters... ( I am so glad you are back)
If Love's a Sweet Passion, why does it torment? If a Bitter, oh tell me whence comes my content? Since I suffer with pleasure, why should I complain, Or grieve at my Fate, when I know 'tis in vain? Yet so pleasing the Pain is, so soft is the Dart, That at once it both wounds me, and Tickles my Heart.
Woog - speaking of writing, have you thought about writing a letter of closure to your W for when the D is final? Some final essay to get all of your thoughts in writing of what you felt about your marriage and why it had to end.