I keep typing things to say to you and end up deleting them because they sound stupid. ok here goes:
1) the only thing for certain is that this guy is a coward. My wife knows i'm not a coward because I am fighting for this R.
2) would it be wise to stop contacting her and let her contact me ? or should there be exceptions like I should contact her about our son if need be and that's it ?
3) should I stop talking about our R to her parents and friends and just keep it between our pastor and I?
4) should I see if the pastor would talk to her? or would she see that as cornering her/intervention ? just let her come around herself ?
5) i have mentioned to her about going to a gym 2 days a week with our mutual friend and invited her if she wanted to go sometime. was this a bad idea?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
