W dropped D off and after a while I was getting D a popcicle. I told her I was taking her out to dinner and I said "You're lucky, you get to go to dinner two nights in a row"
D said "I didn't go to dinner last night"
I said "with mommy and M and M (her 2 friends)"
D said "we stayed at home and then when they went home Ricky (OM) came over"
Hmmm. That was the one boundary I gave W when she moved out. She said okay. So I called her and asked her about it. She was like he was only there for 15mins....I was calm but I said "that was the one thing I asked of you and you agreed". Then it got a little more intense and I said I'm not upset but I know you guys are dating. She said were not.
Then she asked me about OW and I said fine, its true...it was one time (which is was) and that was it. She said who? I said it doesn't matter and that you still won't admit you're dating. I said "honestly, I'm not going to loan you the money now so ask him." I was really calm and not upset, but I just went out on limb to offer her friendship and then I find out about this. Its typical. Time to go dark....very dark.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)