Hi again imp, Thanks so much for looking in on my thread again. I began reading your story from the beginning and just can not imagine how difficult it must be for you to be interacting with both your H and the OW at the business you started. That takes a strength that I don't think I would have. You are certainly handling it with grace. And, as others have said, I concur that you deserve better.
Some of your H's recent behavior has been very unpleasant and hurtful for you. I'm so sorry that he is acting like such an insensitive character.
I certainly know how difficult it is to have a H living in the same house while he acts cold and distant. As difficult as it might be to imagine it is a little less stressful when they are no longer under the same roof.
I noticed that we share the same wedding anniversary date. Did you plan yours to coincide with the Perseid meteor showers?
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08