chris :0) do not take anything that he said to her to heart.
he felt backed into a corner and loss of power so of course he will say that. i bet my H would do the same thing right now.
this is very private for him and you but sometimes men especially dont like to share too much personal stuff.
i agree-...you can share little bits but none of the play by plays...just say things are good...
he said "Said that the only thing that has been different in his eyes is that he hasn't brought up divorce since not filing last week."
thats HUGE!
this is VERY fragile right now. i truly dont think your friend means any harm but she is friends with both of you so whatever you tell her she will tll him...
you are still doing great. no more snooping.
it will be ok and start being nicer to yourself- you are doing fine- backslides happen- just dont go down the same tunnel!
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