I have referred to him as "him" mostly. Sometimes by his first name, or I have said boyfriend.

I will now start to refer to him as her "sancho". A hispanic term for what he is.

I use the word "cheated" or "cheating". Sometimes affair.

I had read to try not to talk bad about OM or name call. It would make her defend him.

I did purposely try not to use certain terms.

No more.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."