PS. the reason why i worked on ACCEPTING him is twofold. 1) So he can open up to me without a reaction from me – I worked on detaching and not reacting 2) because i desperately wanted to be accepted by him and figured this was the best way to SHOW him how to do this....
we are slowly getting him to ACCEOPTING me...this is the first step.... thanks
Amazing he went from sure to not sure. That takes talent on your part!!! How did you detach??? He must have been offering things up to you that you could detach from? I can't seem to do that because my W only gives me a little bit of anything. She barely speaks when we talk, and doesn't contact me but to say simply "good night" or things like that. Did your H do more than that?
Me: 30 W: 27 Married: 9/2007 ILUBNILWU: 1/2008 W moved out 5/24/2008 W suicide 8/25/2009