Quote: My thought is to be completely dark, no interaction w/H before he leaves. That's never happened before.
That alone will get him thinking and may take the gloss off his trip . He will probably try to engage you with some sort of contact so he can go off 'feeling better"
Yes, & since I can't think of any other "spoiler's", this will have to do.
Thing's are bright because I've been dark.
I cont. to ignore all of his calls/e-mail yesterday.
When he arrived at the house last night to P/U S5, I had S16 here in my place.
He left me a VM immediately expressing disappointment that Nephew(11) was not here to spent the night at his house as requested & added, "I haven't heard from you since you got my e-mail on Wednesday. I had a really fun evening planned for the boys & I don't know why Nephews not going. I do have to work tomorrow, so I'll bring S5 home early in the morning."
So I got up at 6am & left the house, leaving S16 in charge again. When he arrived for the drop off, S16 said he looked a little stunned, like it's finally sinking in.
H-"It looks like your mother isn't home." Stating the obvious.
There's been no calls or attempt at contact & I'm feeling stronger & more detached than ever.
