New to this forum and need help..

[tmarie]

Funny how things happen... H used my car to make the trip to SD... I have not heard from him, but reminders all around me... 1 being when I got in his car and flipped down the visor, papers fell out.... His copy of the D petition.... I was annoyed at that a bit... good that he wasn't here... His discretion needs work...My sister called this morning, and it was a busy morning for me I was trying to get to the city and was running late... plus the dogs got loose, gel in my hair and my hands, neighbor comes over, can't even open the door (the goo in my hands,...lol)and the phone on my ear... quite the sight.... Hair sticking up in all directions...partially dressed trying to calm sister down.. she is having a hard time too but all she wanted to do was vent about my H.... "How could he do this to you and his family..." He has everything anyone could ever want and he's throwing it away"... etc.

I tried hard to assure her, but not sure she understands what I am trying to do.. things seem to be going so good, but she just kept venting... very hard to think positive, when family doesn't understand the program...and they are in your ear... I try not to talk about it with them but they always want an update...

I am curious as to what tonight will bring... H is coming home and I have not heard from him since he left...On top of my hectic morning as I am finally leaving for the city I get a call from my attorney... time to sign my paperwork and file the Answer to his Petition..(I have stated that this marriage is NOT broke and there is still a chance.. wonder how that will fly over w/H)... hmmm... H & I have not talked about M or D since we spoke with Michele... Wondering if I tell him that I am going to L office tomorrow...and do I ask if he told his parents? That maybe something I don't want to know... If he tells them, then I am afraid he is not as confused as I had hoped.. and to initate a R & M talk could be exhausting...

Any thoughts out there??

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