Yes Cinco, as Ali is saying...if you bring up the shoes, she will just feel pressure. LATER it will be ok, but not yet. You have more work to do.
Thanks for the comments about your sister, you know what I am saying! Strange, isn't it?
Ali - I am sure that your beauty intimidates other women, hun. Try not to rub it in their face though.....they don't really hate you they just want to emulate you.