I agree with ~DQ...
When my H mentioned my manner of dressing when I wasnt ready.. I felt like I was drowning under the pressure as it was and then he made me feel worse....
when she feels better she will show it thru dressing up again too.

And you know whats worse when you are girly girl like I am .. you get the ugly glares from other WOMEN... or eye rolling.
And No I am not looking like Paris Hilton carrying my Chihuaha around!
why am I hurting you by being feminine?

It used to make me very uncomfortable and NOW?
I just laugh and shake my a** more as I walk on by....

Mean HUH?

I am almost 40 if I cant enjoy it now ,then when ?
~Ali