W2G, no 2x4 needed.
You know your sitch and H better than anyone else. You haven't been pursuing him. Sometimes we need to do a temperature check just to find out where things stand.
Although it may not have been the response you were hoping for, he did tell you that you are the one and he said ILY a couple of times. Those are all extremely positive. He said he's afraid of returning and having it happen again some time down the road. He doesn't want to hurt you like that ever again so he wants to be sure.
Hang in there!


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz