Nlt and Eagle, thanks for the prayers. I also intend to keep praying for H. He needs all the help he can get. He is at a very low point in his life and has become an entirely different man.
Eagle, at this time I'm not prepared to take a chance and file for D. I don't respect the person that my H has become in the last several months but I know that the man he was will be back again some day. He is in a lot of pain and acting out inappropriately. I have read some of the success stories on this BB and see a lot of similarities. I have set some boundaries as far as no contact with OW and honesty. He's obviously not ready to follow through but knows I won't accept anything less than that. Hopefully when he's ready he'll make his way back to our M and be able to commit fully. I think I can be patient for some time longer.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
