Wow, an ILY! That is amazing! I'm so happy for you. And I totally get the "reserved" approach. I understand wanting to stay in separated until you are TOTALLY sure. Love what she wrote in the blog though, that is huge!

Chris

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Me:39
H:39
D:8
D:4
M:9 (T 13)
Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08,
Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09
Still doing GREAT a year later!!!