Thanks for everything you said Pisces. You know, I chose my handle based on a song that I've been listening to since my H left. It first meant that I was lost, in the negative sense, but I kept it because I feel now like it's more like I'm losing the person that I was, and finding a better me. Maybe when I feel like I've really transformed, I'll change my handle to something else but I have a lot of work to go through before that happens.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb